....my memory lane....

Whee.. 1000 hits!

- Viv, 19August09

YES! I solved it! *beam*
It was an HTML error.

- Viv, 03August09

There's some problem with blogger.. or is it just my blog??
I cant seem to be able to post anything else without affecting the page layout. =(
Hopefully it's a blogger problem and they will solve it soon.

- Viv, 02August09

Hiyee.. Welcome!
It's a new look again... I hope you will like it. =)

- Viv, 12July09

hits since 12July2009.

..Rambling..

Tuesday, March 15, 2005

when wat u blogged abt became a hot topic among ur readers... are u supposed to be very happy abt it???

yeah, it is supposed to be the case. recently, an article i posted on my blog started appearing in many other ppl's blogs as well. it does feel a little satisfying that what i posted is of interest to so many ppl. however, the more attention this article got, the more disturbed i am. because the intention of posting this article wasn't met. it backfired instead.

it was supposed to be a way of showing my appreciation for my male friends and all other guys who have been caring and supportive. just as simple as that. just to let them know... there are pple who take note and appreciate all these things they've selflessly done. a way of saying thanks. just as simple as that.

but i probably didn't see that to many others who've been hurt before by being nice, this is such a disturbing article.

well... all the 'nice guys are losers', 'nice guys finish last' blahblah... aren't they just a generalisation? 一只竹竿打翻全船人? who says there isn't nice guys who finished first? who says there isn't nice guys who got themselves wonderful gfs? this article is for the nice guys whose time hasn't arrived yet... not for ALL the nice guys.

and... what about the 'nice gals'? there isn't even an article for them! but are they complaining? i believe you are nice to a person becos u want that person to be happy, it comes from ur heart... not becos u want to be classified under 'nice'. so what if u r hurt? so what if u 'finish last'? does it matter that much? if it does, then dun be nice to her... if u r waiting for smtg in return but u dun get it, stop whatever sacrifice or effort u tink u r making. be fair to urself.

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..What about me..

I am happily married. :)
Just a typical girl seeking her own fairy tale.. and she is glad to have found her prince. =)
And the prince decided to ask the typical girl… to be his princess and live happily ever after!!

~*20 November 2010*~
The day my prince went on his knees and presented me with THE ring!

~*27 November 2010*~
The day we booked Changi Village Hotel to hold our solemnisation ceremony!

~*11 December 2010*~
The day we found and bought our fairytale castle!

~*14 December 2010*~
The day we finally decided and bought our wedding bands - to be worn on our fingers forever!

~*21 December 2010*~
The day my prince and I filed for a notice of marriage with ROM!

~*25 January 2011*~
The day we collected our marriage certificate from the ROM!

~*30 January 2011*~
The day my prince and I tied the knots to live happily ever after!